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Hello Lovers,
I hear it all the time. “I have no problem meeting people but rarely go on a 2nd date.” You know you’re a great catch and you’re meeting quality people so what’s the disconnect? Well, simply stated you probably just didn’t have a date with a person who is right for you. BUT without oversimplifying, there definitely are a few things you can do to ensure that those first dates have more potential. The key to securing a second date is simple. Show genuine interest without overwhelming your date. Ask thoughtful questions, listen actively, and keep the conversation light and engaging—focus on building a connection rather than impressing. Authenticity is crucial; be yourself, the real you will come out eventually anyways OWN IT! Always end the date on a positive note with a clear indication of your interest in seeing them again, whether it’s through a direct invitation or a sincere compliment.
That’s actually the topic we will be digging more deeply into in December’s Jillin’ It LoVe Club. members only online event. LoVe CluB is ideal for you if you are serious about getting serious.
ALSO! Today is the last day to stay on the “NICE LIST” and get early bird pricing for our annual Singles Soiree on 12/19! Last year was so much fun! Get tickets now! Prices increase at MIDNIGHT! LoVe Club members don’t forget to use your code to save.
Pssst: Are you in my complimentary database? Get in there! I might have your match!
In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about setting healthy boundaries in relationships.Plus, read our TOP 3 online dating tips. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta Laugh!
Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.
Big love to you always! Be safe and smart this long weekend!
xo,
Jill
Single Bells! Holiday Singles Soiree - December 19, 2024
Single Bells! Single Bells! Join us for a holiday soirée like no other, curated especially for the vibrant singles in our community. This is an open-aged event. All are welcome!
Live music! Local Singles! Gift exchange + Good Times! Stay on the NICE LIST and get your tickets before midnight TONIGHT before prices increase. Get Tickets here.
Looking for a PROMO CODE? Remember to get in the Jillin’ It LoVe CluB to get exclusive opportunities, access to member-only events, live monthly dating advice, preferred database status and so much more.
Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?
Are you a man between the ages of 55 and 70 in the CT/NY area? Are you trustworthy, honest, romantic, and independent? Do you love dogs and enjoy attending church?
If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my intelligent and artistic client, E. E is kind, personable, honest, and spontaneous. She loves to cook, going to the movies, and taking trips. She is passionate about architecture and music; all three of her children are musicians. She enjoys living a healthy lifestyle.
HOT TOPIC: Healthy Boundaries in Relationships
Boundaries are a key pillar of healthy relationships. They come in many forms (physical, sexual, emotional) and allow us to have meaningful connections with others and ourselves. Setting healthy boundaries requires self-reflection and respectful yet assertive communication. It’s important to remember that boundaries are a long-term process and need to be maintained over time.
TOP 3: Online Dating Tips
Be Authentic and Avoid Overloading: Highlight your hobbies or interests in your bio to showcase your personality. Keep your profile concise and engaging. Overwriting can make it harder for potential matches to find the key points about you.
A Variety of High-Quality Images: Include a mix of solo shots, activity-based photos, and possibly a group photo to show your social side. Avoid blurry or overly filtered pictures.
Personalize Your Messages and Avoid Generic Lines: Start with a reference to something in the other person’s profile to show genuine interest. Steer clear of basic greetings like "Hey" or "What's up?"—make it engaging.
Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me
The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…
Curious about Matchmaking ? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.
I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events, The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!
Curious about Matchmaking ? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.
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