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Hello Lovers,
Tis’ the season of YES! After doing this work for years now I can see very definite patterns from December through February with a serious INCREASE in the volume of, not only, singles reaching out to me who are open and ready for connection BUT more importantly a huge increase in the number of YESSES that I get when I’m presenting a potential match. All of those YESSES that otherwise might be “maybes” are the BEST ones! They’re often the ones that turn to they type of relationship that you didn’t even know you wanted.
All of that to say, right now is a great time to SAY YES! Take the invitation to the random holiday party. Get to to the restaurant a little early and strike up a convo with a solo stranger. Get in my in my complimentary database, get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club, swipe right on the app more liberally and see what happens. SAY YES and let me know how it goes.
Burnt out on dating? Check out my self guided program, The Four Day Flip. This the real deal guide to help smart, successful, single women like you find JOY in dating again. I learned the hard way so you don’t have to. xo
In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about making the holidays fun while being single.Plus, read our TOP 3 ways to boost your holiday spirit. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta Laugh!
Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.
Big love to you always! Be safe and smart this long weekend!
xo,
Jill
Thanks for Joining Us at Single Bells!
What a great night at Space cat with over 80 awesome singles that came to mix and mingle! Steve Keith rocked the house and our favorite photographer, Keith Varni captured some incredible shots. Be sure to reach out to him for new headshots or photos for your next event!
UP NEXT: We are back at Elicit Brewing in Fairfield, CT on 1/15 for our “New Year, New Boo” event. Tickets will go live next week so stay tuned.
Jillin’ It LoVe Club Members your January promo code will be emailed to you when the event is live.
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Singles Spotlight: Is HE Your Match?
Are you a woman between the ages of 27-39 in the CT/NY areas? Are you easy going, family-oriented, active, and adventurous? Do you like to travel and enjoy embarking on new adventures?
If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my intelligent and active client, K. K is honest, sensitive, and relaxed with a good sense of humor. He is working toward his PhD in Cyber Forensics. He is an avid traveler and leads an active lifestyle. He enjoys hiking, playing and watching sports, and salsa/bachata dancing. He likes exploring food festivals, breweries, museums, live shows and concerts.
HOT TOPIC: How to Make Being Single During the Holidays Fun
Something about the holidays makes people question singles more harshly. There’s an insistence that being single during the holidays is inherently bad, and this can make feelings of loneliness even more intense. But you shouldn’t—and don’t—have to suffer through the holidays. In fact, your singledom gives you freedom to celebrate the season however you want to. It can even make the holidays, well, fun.
TOP 3: Ways to Boost Your Holiday Spirit
Donate To a Good Cause: Research has shown that charitable giving brings people more authentic happiness than any other type of spending. Make a donation to a cause that is personally meaningful to you. Or donate in the names of friends and families in lieu of exchanging gifts.
Surprise a Stranger: Acts of generosity don’t have to be big or preplanned to be gratifying. Surprise the person in line behind you at the coffee shop by paying for his drink. Or pay the toll of the person driving behind you. Spontaneity and surprise can amplify the joy of the gift, for both giver and receiver.
Small Acts of Kindness: Shovel snow for an elderly neighbor, take their trash cans to the curb or drop their newspaper on their porch. Small acts of kindness and service cost nothing but mean so much to those having a difficult time.
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The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…
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