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Hello Lovers,
“Thank you for convincing him to go on that date…. I’m so eternally grateful.” This a message I got from a woman who I connected with a client a while back. They’re happy and crazy in love like I had the hunch they would be if they just met and trusted me, trusted the process. It’s a recurring theme and sometimes I feel like a broken record saying this again and again but then I remember that it’s important enough to continue saying it. Everyone thinks they know exactly what they’re looking for and exactly what the package will look like that their partner arrives in but it’s just not always the case. This is true beyond looks, lifestyle, interests, how long you’ve been single, and on an on. There are so many variables in a potential connection but the truth is you really do not know until you meet someone.
(First date = Vibe Check.) So just GO! Give someone a chance to get their vibe checked. You never know…
In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about doorknob moments. Plus, read our TOP 3 signsyou are in a situationship. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!
If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients.
Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.
Big love to you always!
xo,
Jill
Love CluB (Members Only) Event 4/17 @7pm
This is Jillin' It LoVe CluB Members-only, group roundtable for singles.
This month's topic is Debunking Myths About Modern Dating.
The myths we will be debunking:
-Online Dating Is Only for People Who Can’t Find Someone in Real Life
-Dating Apps Are Just for Hookups
-There’s One “Perfect Match” for Everyone
-You Have to Be “Ready” for a Relationship or Stay Single Until You Are
-You Shouldn’t Date Someone Who Has a Different Lifestyle or Background
The presentation will also be recorded and emailed to LoVe CluB members.
Join us at 7pm on Thursday, April 17 for the full discussion. Bring your dating questions on any topic, meet and engage with other local singles in a live discussion.
**Participation in this event requires an annual membership to the Jillin' It LoVe CluB.
Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?
Are you a man over the age of 65? Are you a man of optimal well-being, genuine contentment and accomplishment, consistently evolving and exhibiting compassion? Do you actively engage with the community and have a deep appreciation for animals? Do you have a commitment to a healthy lifestyle?
If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my beautiful, accomplished and impressive client, J. She’s a delightful blend of brilliant and dynamic, complimented by a fun, spunky and grounded nature. She values life’s simple pleasures like a good laugh and a glass of scotch, time with friends, and a love of travel and animals.
HOT TOPIC: What is a Doorknob Moment?
This is a classic doorknob moment—when someone drops an important emotional truth just as the conversation is ending. It could be something smaller, like “I’ve been feeling distant from you,” or something life-changing, like “I’m not sure I see a future for us.” Either way, it leaves both partners wondering: Why do we wait until the very last moment to say what really matters?
TOP 3: Signs You Are in a Situationship
Your relationship has no title: Although you may have all the aspects of a partnership, your relationship feels ambiguous and undefined.
You haven’t introduced each other to family or friends: The relationship is compartmentalized, and other social relationships are not integrated.
Your relationship is mostly based on convenience: You meet only when it is convenient, and any excuses given are vague and generic, such as "work is busy this week."
Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me
The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…
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