Singles Sparks - Your Weekly Love Link - APR 20

Hello Lovers, 

WARNING! If you keep scrolling you are definitely going to say “Awwwwww” at the photo of my adorable client, Joy (86 years young) and her darling boyfriend, Covert. I had the pleasure of having lunch yesterday with these love birds that I connected. As I watched these two reach for each other over the table and share stories of things they enjoy together and plans for the future my heart was bursting with love and hope. Truly, anything you want can be yours, you just have to set the wheels in motion. It really is never too late to find love. 

But how can you find it too? Well, I asked them and this is what he said:

Me: “What’s your best dating advice for finding love again?” 

Covert: “Check in with Jill.”

I’m wishing a very Happy Easter to those who celebrate! May you embrace this Spring season of renewal as a chance for a fresh start. Leaving behind what no longer serves you and making space for connections that truly resonate with who you are. Growth comes from bothreflection and action, so step forward with an open heart and embrace new possibilities. 

Want to chat more? Get in touch to I can see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club for monthly live roundtables, preferred database status, discounts on events and so much more. 

NEW EVENT IS LIVE! + In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the 24-hour rule. Plus, read our TOP 3 traits of master manipulators. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE! 

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients. 

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always! 

xo,

Jill

Join Us for a Singles Matchbox Mixer: May 1

Join us for an evening of live music, good vibes, and meeting your most compatible match!

Matching will be powered by Matchbox. It’s a software that uses relationship science to find you your most compatible match at the party. Singles will be matched according to two separate age groups, 28-45 and 46+. 

Clues will be sent to your phone throughout the night to get you closer and then finally you’ll get a message revealing your most compatible match! Fun, right!? Advanced tickets are a MUST. Get tickets + info here. 

Looking for a PROMO CODE? Those are reserved for LoVe CluB members. Get in the Jillin’ It LoVe CluB for your promo codes and so many other perks including preferred database status. 

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Another Jillin' It Love Story

I warned you. You can’t help but gush over this beautiful, JOYful couple. A real example that it’s never too late to find love. Joy and Covert love golfing together and enjoying a Corona or Moscow Mules with a nice lunch at their favorite restaurant but boy is Covert is crazy about her home cooking. I loved hearing about their plans for the future and listening to them gush over each other, how compatible they are and how they never thought this could happen but here we are! Makes my heart happy. Love! 

Ready to find your love story? Get in touch.

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 48 and 60 in the CT/NY area? Are you smart, affectionate, social, and active? Do you enjoy being on the water and traveling? Are you a good conversationalist and do you prioritize family?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my smart and funny client, L. L is generous, thoughtful, social, affectionate, and passionate. She's always up for new things and enjoys playing golf, traveling, skiing, dinner with friends, and entertaining. Family is important to her.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: Protect Your Relationship with the 24-Hour Rule

In moments of heightened emotion, frustration, hurt, or anger can easily take the reins. Words spoken in haste, flaring tempers, or impulsive actions often lead to regret. This is where the “24-hour rule” proves invaluable. It’s the deliberate practice of giving yourself a full day to process your emotions before responding to a triggering event or conversation. Think of it as hitting a “reset button” for your relationship—a tool that allows both partners the time and clarity needed to navigate conflicts with greater compassion and understanding.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Traits of Master Manipulators

1. They tend to be highly perceptive: They use intuition to get under someone’s skin, learn what makes others tick, and eventually exploit those insights for personal gain. Pay attention to those people who seem to predict your reactions right off the bat. They may just be gifted with high levels of intuition—but they could also be manifesting a fine-tuned manipulative skill to get what they want.

2. They never stay in one environment for long: Manipulators switch environments when they’re no longer able to get what they want. When they run out of victims—or victims see what’s going on and take a stand against it—it’s the end of the road for a master manipulator.

3. They use the same strategies over and over: If a master manipulator has learned that being overly nice at the beginning of relationships eventually nets them a blank check to do whatever they want, chances are they’ll keep using that technique. If they’ve grasped power out of using intimidation or fear, they’ll stick to what’s worked. 

   
   

Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

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I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events,  The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!

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